Are You an Optimist or a Pessimist ?

Are You an Optimist or a Pessimist ? · 09-12-2009, 06:42 PM

Are You an Optimist or a Pessimist ?

Between the optimist and the pessimist, the difference is droll. The optimist sees the doughnut; the pessimist the hole!

I have been giving some thought lately to optimism and pessimism. Basically, these are attitudes — attitudes that shape and formulate our entire existence. I mean, have you ever met a happy pessimist? Of course not.
In short, our optimism or pessimism is this:
The way we interpret the past
The way we experience and view the present
The way we imagine the future
Have you given much thought about how your attitude, whether you are an optimist or a pessimist, affects you business, organization or school? Have you thought about how it affects you personally? And what about the team you are a part of?
What is optimism? It is the belief that things in our past were good for us, even if that means they were hard and taught us lessons. It is also the belief that things will be better in the future.
Here are some contrasts between optimism and pessimism and how they affect us:
Optimism breathes life into you each day.
Pessimism drains you.
Optimism helps you to take needed risks.
Pessimism plays it safe and never accomplishes much.
Optimism improves those around you.
Pessimism drags them down.
Optimism inspires people to great heights.
Pessimism deflates people to new lows.
There is only one way that optimism and pessimism are the same, and that is that they are both self-fulfilling. If you are an optimist, you will generally find that good things happen to you. And if you are a pessimist, you will find yourself in the not-so-good situations more often than not.
So can a person just become an optimist? Yes! We can choose to look at the world any way we want to. We can choose to look at the world and think the worst, or we can tell ourselves the good things about each situation. As you find yourself looking at your enterprise, begin to view it through the eyes of an optimist, and you will reap the rewards listed above, and so will the people around you.
There are tremendous benefits to being an optimist, as stated above. But there are some pessimists out there who will say, But that isn't realistic. I say, Who cares? If things go awry, at least I have spent my time beforehand enjoying life and not worrying about it. And, being an optimist, I would view the negative situation as an opportunity to grow and learn. So I can even look forward to my failures because they will be steppingstones and learning tools to be applied to my future success.
Have you ever met a successful pessimist? Become an optimist, and see your world change before your eyes!

Have a blessed day!

Let's make the uncommon knowledge common

**momna gull** · 09-12-2009, 08:12 PM

Allah reham itna chatayy font main likha hai
kuch to meri aankhon ka khayal kero
ager chashme ka number badh gaya to

**.BZU.** · 09-12-2009, 08:32 PM

	Quote:		momna gull
	Allah reham itna chatayy font main likha hai kuch to meri aankhon ka khayal kero ager chashme ka number badh gaya to

CP technology...

**momna gull** · 09-12-2009, 08:41 PM

ye technology ki baat ker k to aap hamen concious ker deti ho
meri IT ki knowledge bohat kharab hai
haan wese main ne is thread ko zoom ker k padh lia tha

**usman_latif_ch** · 10-12-2009, 02:36 PM

	Quote:		momna gull
	Allah reham itna chatayy font main likha hai kuch to meri aankhon ka khayal kero ager chashme ka number badh gaya to

apko chashma bhi lag gaya ha...?

**momna gull** · 10-12-2009, 03:03 PM

lag gaya nahi ye pucho kab se laga

	Quote:
	apko chashma bhi lag gaya ha...?

**usman_latif_ch** · 10-12-2009, 03:08 PM

hmmm....ok kab sy laga

**.BZU.** · 10-12-2009, 07:07 PM

CP..
Copy Pasts.
or
Cut Paste.

Koi khaas tech nahi hay yeh...

**momna gull** · 10-12-2009, 08:01 PM

theek hai

**Nandla** · 13-12-2009, 06:48 PM

wowww yahan boht hi achi technology ka pata chala. CP tech.

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